Article about services #3
Consider. You is young, hormones and adrenaline splash through the edge, it wants life,
new sensations, happiness, reliable services, finally. And the first contact with the man,
who does not relate to the circle of relatives and teachers, forces you to experience
those most unknown to this feeling and desires. But that into all centuries they did not
say, about the damaged and low-- moral young people, it, they automatically call this
the beautiful word of "love". By the way, they are not always unjust. And they know as
to open socially correct door into the new, free peace, where it is not necessary to hide
its feelings. This is called marriage services.
In the course of time, the passions usually grow cold, but even if no, then " osleplenie"
it passes accurately. This can engage years, it can months. As a rule, in this stage,
husbands begin to realize difference, between " to be together" and " to consist into
"brake". Way of life begins. It is time to somehow arrange life using helpful services.
And, they frequently reveal that besides inclination, between them little or completely
there is nothing in common. It is explained, that they have different purposes or, at
least, different plans as this purpose to reach. The first complex stage in their family life
begins. And if this stage overgrows into the regular disagreements, then the second
front is opened in them after the back. And they begin increasingly more to spend time
on the explanation of relations, it is more even, than to the relations with another peace.
Note, we examine still one of the most inoffensive and smoothest versions, in contrast
to those, let us say, when on the inexperience, or in view of improvidence, in this family
immediately appears child. In this case it is possible to obtain present tragedy.
But so, in this stage, if they are capable of discussing rationally, or using services, after
rejecting romantic aspect, they, until it is late, leave each by their road and, often,
remain to the end of the life good friends.
But too frequently it is, that they are caught for the concept of " lyubov" and, after
covering by it as by panel, attempt " by love entire prevozmoch". And as a result is
obtained "truth" , with the brief and unsteady armistices. In the attempt to find a
compromise, between the family happiness and the desire of another partner.
- The horror of what, I after such council services, never will leave marry.
It distorts by arms, as if it suddenly, it became very chilly.
- Do not think that I frighten you. I simply attempt to outline to you all possible versions.
The same not postulate - it is said, so compulsorily it will be. But, think about the poor,
good auto will arrive.
- But you said that this is the first complex stage of family life… Which then the second?
- The second? You do see, it cannot be two times entered into one and the same river.
To attempt to accumulate the uncomplicated marriage, in reality the disastrous matter.
And, often, people begin only more strongly to suffer, because of those actions,
which they undertake, for restoring harmony and not using "marriage services".
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