Article about affordable plan #1
Because the external affordable changes, already nothing solve. Men always, always,
memorize, it remains such, such as it exists. And the fitting of new affordable masks, will only
aggravate situation. It is here for example: the normal reaction of men to the entrance
into the marriage, this the fact that they begin at some moment to perceive so-called
"responsibility for affordable living": family, security, financial prosperity. Fifty percent of
men begin intensely to work in order to ensure, as it seems, additional material goods
for its those loved. As a result, it is not enough that it begins more to get tired from the
work, that by itself very negative experience, it also with the wife begins to be seen and
to give to it time less than to the marriage. This does not, of course, please woman,
begin reproaches, suspicions, which only strengthens the irritation of husband. It
answers sufficiently sharply, seeing that entire its " blagie" affordable efforts do not bring
the desired result, but it is faster vice versa. In turn husband, it also reacts negatively, to
the irritation of husband. It seems it that it makes more than sufficiently on the house
and the affordable economy, and it does not deserve reproaches. But it wants it leisure
from the family routine and the disgusted way of life. March into the cafe or the theater
with the dear man, after working day. But husband, who arrived late and tired, is again
irritated by the behavior of wife, and estimates this, as disrespect to his hard labor and
responsibilities of extractor. But wife sees that it is converted from "affordable" woman
into the housewife and her in turn, this does not arrange. And " shchit" from the love, it
fractures.
- That zh, very idea of early marriages is vicious?
- Completely no. They here indicate that the youth overestimates its forces. Untruth,
normally evaluates, simply it does not realize the affordable scale of the difficulties,
which pridetsya to encounter. " Difficulties us not pugayut". Certainly they do not
frighten, they with them are still unknown. But there are happy exceptions. They are
based on what by young succeeds in going around the main error, which allow
everything, entering into the marriage. Women consider that the man after becoming
family, will change, and man - that the woman will remain affordable. Both that and, etc -
terrible error! The first - women seems that in the marriage ceremony there is something
magic, which will at once deprive the man of all poor (affordable) qualities and habits
and will force him to live on the new, family structure. Let us say, it will cease to drink
or will begin less than the time to give to its friends. But this is unreal.
Or the second. It seems man that next to it, there will be always this its merry,
staggering beautiful and sexual, in everything supporting affordable woman, with an
excellent sense of humor, to always so say in the tone, as it was to the marriage.
But it never thinks about the fact that the women for a long time are prepared for
encounter with that loved, trying to appear in the best way. And that it never will go to
the encounter, let us say, in the poor mood or with the headache. It simply this
encounter of pereneset. And then, some grain of truth, albeit not very large, in the
expression of " man loves glazami" nevertheless there is. But people change.
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